It’s a very simple answer, when pets pass on. I’m going into my 15th year in business August 1st, 2024 and it’s been a dream occupation for me. But with time, comes a lot of loss and every one is a heartbreak for me. I’ve been honored to be there for moral support for a few of my clients, when they are letting their loved one go. I’ve also been called, when they knew time was close, so I could come and say goodbye. To say it is hard, is an understatement. Honestly, there have been times when I’ve come home to my husband in tears and tell him I can’t do this anymore…I can’t be a pet sitter. But…I look at my phone and know there is someone out there, waiting for me to care for them. I then get greeted with so much love or I start to laugh, because I see some mischief they got into and they have that uh oh!! look on their face. But I never get mad when I see they’ve torn up their bed, I just say come here, it’s ok and clean it up. Sometimes with them jumping on me, relieved I didn’t get upset.
It’s just all part of the job and something you need to be able to handle if you want to be in business for a long time. So with the sorrow is the joy of knowing so many wonderful animals. The pure joy of meeting them out with their parents on a walk and they lose their minds when they see it’s you. I always laugh and tell their parents they see me as a walking treat dispenser.
But I also know they love me, as much as I love them. So is it the hardest part of the job, Oh God yes…but then you meet a new buddy and a new love begins.
One final thought, never let anyone tell you you’ve grieved enough. There is no time table, there is no Rule! You grieve as long as you need.
Much love to you all!!!
